Welcome! 

What's this human’s life like? Just like yours: too much to handle gracefully. Here you’ll find writing on the epic theme: What now? I post weekly-ish. Except when I don’t. 

I’m a psychiatrist in private practice for almost thirty years with my husband (also a psychiatrist) north of the Adirondack Park in upstate New York. (No, we don’t analyze each other. We prefer to stay married.)  Our son has grown up and moved to a minor metropolitan area.

In addition to practicing my profession (Will I ever get it right?) and writing for my favorite professional journal the Psychotherapy Networker, I’m an award winning author and champion reader. ["So many books. So little time." Frank Zappa] Then there’s the farm run, cooking, friends and family. And sleeping. Let’s not forget sleeping. Very important for brain health.

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Check out my latest book published by W. W. Norton! Doorknob Bombshells in Therapy: The Deadline, the Brain, and Why It is Important to End on Time. The doorknob bombshell, also known as a doorknob moment, is a near universal experience that no clinician escapes. That’s when a patient drops concerning information on their way out the door, with a hand on the doorknob. Should we run over to help the patient process this new material, possibly making ourselves late for the next patient? Or should we end on time, possibly causing the patient more suffering? It’s a tough judgment call to make under time pressure, and always stressful. Then, the solution came to me!

While I wrote this book for clinicians, if you are interested in psychiatry and mental health work, it’s totally readable. (Disclaimer: you may have to look up a term or two.)

I wrote my first book, a clinical memoir, for everyone. What’s a shrink’s life and work really like? Practice, Practice, Practice: This Psychiatrist's Life answers those questions with a light touch. I talk about it here.

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Awards:

International Book Awards Finalist, Psychology and Mental Health category, 2021: Practice, Practice, Practice: This Psychiatrist’s Life

National Society of Newspaper Columnists, Third Prize, General Online category, 2022 and 2024. Read those essays here.